Tuesday, September 6, 2016

How To handle Haters

I am one to go out of my way to support friends with anything they choose to do, I offer my advice whenever I can. It's sad when most don't reciprocate it. Some become your instant enemy and  your number one vocal antagonist.

They will never support or encourage you but make one mistake they become the loudest speaker, ready to advertise your struggles. They are not really friends just enemies in disguise. The most important thing is not to bother yourself about them, don't let their hate for your success weigh you down, use their negative energy to inspire you to do better. For every time they try to make you give up, you stay strong!

Nothing annoys such people than your silence and resilience.  This applies to every aspect of life. You can acknowledge them but not their actions, "Hi haters! I see you but I ain't got your time"

Ignore them! Don't pay attention to foolishness

Take it with a grain of salt! There might be some truth to what haters are saying, fix whatever you can fix, just don't take it to heart and hurt yourself emotionally.

Don't retaliate! That's what they want, to bring you down to their level! When they go low, go high!

Don't apologize! Don't try to explain anything, don't justify anything, you only owe yourself explanation

Don't try to please anyone! It's impossible to please everyone! Not everyone would like or hate you. Appreciate those who love you

Adore them! Kill them with kindness!

Haters are gonna hate! Don't worry yourself! They are just doing their job description.

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